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Mother Love
Is there any equivalent or replacement for mother love? Mothers are same all over the world. Irrespective of their education, nationality, religion, culture, they know one thing the best.-ie. - taking care of their children. No body tells a pregnant woman what is mother love. Some awareness lectures and sessions may be conducted for the sake of pregnant women to expect what is going to happen and how to handle the child birth. No body can tell them how to love their kids.
When the child is born, it can neither talk nor can express. But it is amazing to see how a mother can understand the child's needs. We may think that the child is crying for milk, but mother would know that the child wants water! It's the mother love that can understand the child so well.
The first year of the child is so important and lot of attention is required to be given to the child. Hence many working mothers take time off for a year or two, if they can, to take care of the child. If the family can manage without the mother's salary, the mother may like to stay home giving all the mother love and taking care of the child till the child can go to the baby care center or pre-school.
They say, mother love is evenly distributed between the children. However, the siblings want extra attention from mother and may keep fighting between themselves about who the mother's pet is. Mother can only smile and not answer this. It is generally felt that the eldest child of the family is close to mother and the youngest one close to the father.
Kids without mother are generally taken care of by father. Till the child gets into teens, it is manageable. However, the teens tend to confide more in mother than father. The girls may be able to share some personal issues and friends with the single father. But, when it comes to physiological issues, it may become a problem. Girls do not like to discuss many issues like menstruation and sex related doubts with fathers. They certainly miss mother love, care and companionship.
In some families, if the tragedy strikes and deprives the children of mother love, the eldest girl generally takes over the role of mother. While it is impossible to fill that vacuum, the eldest child tries her best.
It is not only humans who experience mother love. It is true in birds and animals as well. We have seen how mother birds feed their chicks. Did you not notice the mother dog protecting the puppies and not allowing any one to touch them? If you think it may be only in domesticated pets, you are wrong. Did we not watch those National Geographic's videos about different animals and how they take care of their young ones.
I like this story, which we all read. A cow strays into forest and finds itself right in front of a lion. Lion was about to kill the cow and the cow requests the lion to allow her to go feed her calf and that it will return back. Lion was surprised at the cow's request and allows her to go. The cows, goes back, feeds the calf and returns back to the lion. Lion appreciates the cow's mother love as well as it's sincerity in keeping its word, and asks cow to go back to take care of the calf. The story can not be real or practical, but it highlights mother love and the attitude.
A mother sometimes is also not good. Basically womens are more worried about their social life. I mean to say if a mother's child is doing something wrong, it gives bad reputation to her and her husband. Here a mother becomes selfish. Same thing happened with me in My love story .I was in true love with a girl but our story ended sadly because we were unable to marry each other. Neither my mother and nor her allowed to marry us as we were from different religion. They didnt allow only because they were afraid what will people say. They were more worried about their social goodwill and dont care someone's true love. Here is what the problem is with very person on this earth. So I dont even consider a mother to be perfect. I only understand that person as good who understand love and ready to sacrifice anything for love.
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