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True First Love
What is true love? It is really controversial. Every one defines the "True Love" according to his experience. Even though most people at some stage of their lives are "in love", nobody really seems to know what the real love is! The Greek language gives some definitions of love. "Stergein" explains a natural love, "Eran" is passionate love, "Philein" a pleasure giving love, and "Agapan" a self sacrifice, giving love.
Some people describe true love as lust which is especially shown in movies and other T.V. programmes. Some other people think that "True Love" is a commitment of a person to his beloved person. If there is no commitment then actually "True Love" cannot happen. You have to be fully committed to ur loved one. But unfortunately,commitment is rarely found in today's love that is the reason why we see so many cases of divorces, misunderstandings and broken homes in today's world.
True love often begins during the first encounter,when two people are meeting for the first time. After first sight, the two people talk and become more closer and then they share the feelings to each other. Some people strongly believe that "True Love" is the First love and it always remains in your heart. You you cannot forget that particular person whom you had loved for the first time in your life. Because that person was the beginning of your new life as he or she entered into your life, you got to know What "True Love" is all about and How does it feel.
Mostly people belive that "Sacrifice" is the second name of "True Love". Without any sacrifice there is no love. As my friend always say "Life is love and love is sacrifice". Sacrifice is the basic proof of a"True Love". In "True Love" people become mad and they want to get their love at each and every cost. They start feeling dead when they are away from their love, the soules become restless. They can never imagine to lose their love.
We must remember one thing that "True love is totally based on giving policies and it does not expect to get anything back as it is said " The Real Love starts when nothing is expected in return". You want to give your beloved the whole of world and still you donot get the feeling of satisfaction because the "True Love" is never satisfied and you still feel that you have given nothing. But some people donot agree to this rule. They firmly believe that "True Love is based on give and take policy and if other person is not responsing you in a good way how can you have the feeling of true love. Infact the one measure of true love is that you can insult the other. But one question is raised "Is the first love the true love or the you find the true love even after" ?.......
There are various opinions of different people. Some people believe that first love is true love because it has deepest impact on your life because the emotions of love you feel for the first love are never forgotten. In first love people donot deceive others deliberately.
On the other hand, the first love mostly happens in early young ages when lover is not so mature. People are usually fallen in love in a short period of time without much experience. Senses donot work and the feelings of love become dominant. The person becomes blind in love so cannot see the other's weak points. But this condition cannot last for too long. After some time, the senses start working and dominancy of heart is no more there. Now people start looking at the week points of the partner. Sooner they find themselves in the situation that both of us are totally different in nature,in choices,in point of views, in thinking etc. etc. and they feel that they have taken a wrong decision. It feels difficult to spend the whole of life together and they feel clashes in their perceptions.
And sooner this relation is broken and reaches to its climax. Both of them are satisfied that at last they have taken a good decision. NOw in the future they will not repeat the same mistake and verily this experience will help them for the whole of life to make the selection of their partner of the entire life period. And it is certain that the next time they will be able to find the true love,as now both the mind and heart are working together.
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